Quote Originally Posted by MilkieTea View Post
You may be the least important role but you're also almost always the reason for a wipe, even when you aren't, in my experience.
Not really. If the tank is using cooldowns, holding aggro and avoiding aoes, there aren't any mistakes he could do that lead to wipes in dungeons. You just hit Rampart, spam your aoe skills and don't stand in fire. Small pulls and big pulls are the same.

Tank anxiety is thinking that you are responsible for mobs not dying in time, you not getting healed in time, other people dying to aoes or other kinds of incompetence. But you're not responsible for those things. Adopting a mindset that even though you lead the way you're not really in control of how the pull goes, and just focusing on your own play, can reduce anxiety and allow you to speed things up. It did for me.