Quote Originally Posted by TaleraRistain View Post
If it's a random group, they don't know you and what you can do. We show them that by the actions we take and by showing that we can be depended upon. You're showing that you don't have their back and that they have something to be nervous about.

Take your ego out of the equation and just heal them.
That isn't having their back. It's kowtowing to how they perceive you should play. You aren't showing them anything except how "right" their stance was. It isn't a question of egos but someone else dictating how you should perform. Your job as a healer is to keep the party of alive and DPS otherwise. So long as you accomplish that, you've done your job. It doesn't matter if the tank dropped to 20%, 55% or 90%. They lived through the pull and we continued onto the next. Them being nervous isn't my problem nor do I have to adjust how I play to accommodate said nerves.