Nobody is forcing you apart, the people above already suggested international servers.
You can't solve latency issues like that, the distance travelled is the distance travelled.
FFXI was an exceptional slow paced game with slow mechanics and slow bosses.FFXI had servers in Japan and no one complained, STO has one server based in US (Yes EU and US play together) no one complains.
Us server are about 100-120 ms for me Japanese and Asia servers are 300ms, big difference. the French WoW server is 50 ms.
You can try and shrug it off all you like but you aren't' fooling anyone, FFXI indeed lol.
Tera is launching soon and they plan to have both US and EU servers, why do you think they did this ? when they could have just hosted their servers from Korea .. ?
GW2 will be the same, hell even free to play MMO's these days have EU servers.