As I am posting here, it is no surprise that I am new to the game and MMOs in general. I am working through the main quests, and have watched a few videos to better understand what to do (as a player) in my role as DPS. Yet nothing has prepared me for the party experience!

I feel as if I am spending all my time running after the tank (which I understand the reason) and then desperately trying to find an enemy to click on and making sure I am pressing the right keys, running when I see the yellow box and not upsetting my party. Hopefully, the sprout gives a clue to the others in the party that I am new and haven't a clue what I am doing, but I had read (watched) that I should let my party know and I (finally) worked out how to type to the party but we were off and running before I could, then I had to click on the screen I wasn't simply typing in a series of 'wwwwww's instead of running after my party between that and desperately trying to click on an actual enemy I feel like I suck

I'm honestly feeling a bit overwhelmed, I love the game and the story, but the party dungeons are really making me anxious and these are the early ones. I know I am still a noob and that it is still very early in the game. I suppose I'm looking for reassurance it will get easier and similar ideas.

Sorry for the longwinded explanation but I'm a bit nervous about speaking on the Novice Network (it seems to mostly be the mentors and the few novices are either returners or already at level 30-40, so I'm lost by their discussions) and I haven't yet joined an FC (still looking for the right fit) so I'm hoping the kind people here can help!