SE's inability to protect players from stalking/harassment

[AiUsagi]

Honestly, if she is genuine in putting her time into "her bf" and his dad, then I shouldn't expect to be harassed anymore. I did/do NOT want contact with this person at all.

[Dancingweapon]

Honestly, if she is genuine in putting her time into "her bf" and his dad, then I shouldn't expect to be harassed anymore. I did/do NOT want contact with this person at all.

Well it sounds like it's resolved from the thread. Neither of you want to speak to each other or have anything to do with each other. So you can both just follow what you said and it's all going to be gravy.

SE should add more privacy options but it's probably better if you both just never speak each other's names again. It is, afterall, what you both wanted.

[AiUsagi]

Well it sounds like it's resolved from the thread. Neither of you want to speak to each other or have anything to do with each other. So you can both just follow what you said and it's all going to be gravy.

SE should add more privacy options but it's probably better if you both just never speak each other's names again. It is, afterall, what you both wanted.

I seriously have my doubts and all I can say is that I hope Square Enix implements some better features soon. This situation stands to be an example of what is wrong with the current features and why it is important to provide players with options that give them more control of their visibility to other players, especially when blacklisted. This situation would not have continued if the blacklisting system was actually effective and if players could control who can see their locations/Free Company affiliations. I appreciate those who remain neutral on the drama and focus on coming up with some changes that will prevent instances like this from occurring in game in the future.

[AiUsagi]

Where can I share my screenshots that prove she is lying and manipulating the situation? I'm over this, BEEN OVER IT FOR 2YRS.

[DinahDemiurge]

some of you people really should stay off the internet. yeesh.

[AiUsagi]

The only time I've reached out to anyone is to ask for HELP to get her to stop harassing me. I have proof of her "bf" denying they're together and denying things she claims. I have proof her friends have come to my FC to try and get her to leave. I have proof of her leaving messages in my message books, despite being blocked. I HAVE PROOF. Additionally, i know for a fact she has no information on me because WE WERE HARDLY FRIENDS FOR A WEEK. I was only friends with "her bf" which has led her to behave in this crazy manner for the last two years to stalk and harass me. I'm really not surprised she would blast your bf's personal business to seek sympathy when she would also use suicide as a way to manipulate people. JUST LEAVE ME ALONE. I thought you had better things to do than to harass me anymore??? 100% you will not stop and leave me alone until SE either bans you or implements features for privacy that are worth a damn.

[Chie_M]

Where can I share my screenshots that prove she is lying and manipulating the situation? I'm over this, BEEN OVER IT FOR 2YRS.

You can upload screenshots to imgur and then link the album here.

[AiUsagi]

You can upload screenshots to imgur and then link the album here.

Is it against ToS?

[ScarletDawn]

Is it against ToS?

As long as names are hidden then screenshots are fine but anything that has people name on is due to naming and shaming. Those images I suggest go to support.

[Hashberry]

The only time I've reached out to anyone is to ask for HELP to get her to stop harassing me. I have proof of her "bf" denying they're together and denying things she claims. I have proof her friends have come to my FC to try and get her to leave. I have proof of her leaving messages in my message books, despite being blocked. I HAVE PROOF. Additionally, i know for a fact she has no information on me because WE WERE HARDLY FRIENDS FOR A WEEK. I was only friends with "her bf" which has led her to behave in this crazy manner for the last two years to stalk and harass me. I'm really not surprised she would blast your bf's personal business to seek sympathy when she would also use suicide as a way to manipulate people. JUST LEAVE ME ALONE. I thought you had better things to do than to harass me anymore??? 100% you will not stop and leave me alone until SE either bans you or implements features for privacy that are worth a damn.

Use your own features for privacy, and stop speaking. Stop reacting. Both of you. Who cares about proof? It's he said/she said at this point, and SE has the logs. ALL of them, not just snippets. Be the adult. Take a deep breath, and simply move on. If there's no reaction, there's no issue. It's not easy, everyone has been insulted, but you can stop it. The others can stop it. But someone needs to.

On a general note, yeah, I do wish SE would implement better tools. It helps keep people from taking things too far.