At first I was thinking of going to a city state and staying there. My character is one thing, but the IRL me is a weakling coward, so I´d try to live a normal life, then I began thinking about them and...
Gridania: Maybe the best option, but if you aren´t accepted by the Twelve good luck with getting something as simple as basic medicine.
Limsa Lominsa: Although from an OOC perspective it seems like a fun city, so many pirates together, even reformed ones, can lead to no good.
Ul´dah: You are either a top dog or you live in the slums.
Ishgard: Same.
Shirogane: Could be a nice city, but it´s too close to imperial retaliation for comfort.
So, my best bet would be to join the Scions of the Seventh Dawn as a messenger, barman, or other non-life-risking job.