Both of you need to stop to turn a simple issue into philosophy discussion
If player health and bots are really an issue, a simple restriction of each player can only click placard once per 30 mins would be much simple temporary fix until SE move wards to dedicate sever
You clicked the placard and you are free to do something else and people can still free to relocate without restriction.
Players do not need to mentally bound themselves and bots will no longer be an issue?