Lets talk about the FFXIV player base..

[Mechnikov_the_Jotunn]

I get where Krotoan is coming from, but it seems odd to expect people to be content with just clearing a dungeon, that's kind of the minimum. The game isn't difficult, hate to break it to anyone. I also don't think the silent kicks or silence when a group wipe happens has the person who might've caused it reflect on what they could have done better. I do genuinely believe some people stumble through content.

I could spend an hour in a dungeon, but it could also take 15 minutes. I derive no greater fun nor pleasure being in the dungeon longer. It's why some peeps get peeved at single pulling tanks. You CAN pull two groups, so it costs nothing to do so. As far as I can tell, people run roulettes to get their tomestones for gear, not for the joy of running Thousand Maws again.

I want to restate the validity of both ends again. If you're someone who wants to have a pizza in one hand and your hand on WASD with the other, I think that's fine. With the elaborate and relevant crafting system in FFXIV, Housing, Social, and Combat aspects of FFXIV it's normal to have an array of people from all mindsets to play the game.

But if we're going to be tolerant and accepting that some people aren't going to understand their rotations, use CDs, and frankly sometimes slow things down; I feel it's only fair you don't crucify someone who mentions they want you to double pull or potentially offers well meaning advice. Toxicity goes both ways, forcing someone to pull wall to wall if they're not sure they can is toxic, forcing the entire party to play your way is too.