Lets talk about the FFXIV player base..

[Krotoan]

How will anyone ever know they're playing poorly or straight up wrong if no one ever tells them

If someone want's to improve or notices they get kicked from a lot of parties.. they can ask why or look up how to improve. Otherwise it is not my responsibility or right to tell them they're bad. I'm not suggesting silence if mechanics are being done incorrectly, or content isn't being passed though, just that people shouldn't jump on someone just because they're playing sub-par.

This seems like a very counter-productive attitude that exists purely to justify bad players being bad.

How does this "justify" players being bad? It just avoids persecuting people who aren't up to whomevers standards.. and usually those standards are above and beyond "did we pass the content", which isn't necessary to play and enjoy the game.

I feel sorry for Jijifli because it wasn't their party so they couldn't kick this problematic DNC, but according to you, Jijifli also shouldn't even mention that the DNC is being a nuisance and actually shouldn't even be in said party. We deal with this kind of issue in parties constantly, regardless of content or level, where players just don't put the effort in that others do. This is a team game, if you're not willing to put the effort in and respect your fellow players time, you should not be playing this game, it's selfish beyond belief. No one is entitled to free clears and carries in content just because they don't want to actually try.

They can initiate a votekick like everyone else can. State a reason. Or if you don't like people allowing sub-par players, leave. You don't have to be in the farm either. This isn't "never say anything about it", to clarify, just that people who constantly whine about the healer not healing or the tank not pulling big enough really need to make their own parties if it's such a big problem.

I've spoken up in a farm PF before about a player who was dying to all the mechanics and generally just not helping. I got told that person was a friend of said PF leader and they only kicked them after they had been DC'd for about 10 minutes. I shut up after I found it was there friend because I know how it goes, there was a potential for me to get kicked if I kept complaining because people would rather defend their bad friends than admit they shouldn't be there. Did I mention this bad player DC'd after winning the mount the first time it dropped? Very cool.

And yet you live and continue to play the game. It really didn't change your life all that much to just be quiet did it? You could have left as well.

[Irisdina_Wiloh]

If someone want's to improve or notices they get kicked from a lot of parties.. they can ask why or look up how to improve. Otherwise it is not my responsibility or right to tell them they're bad. I'm not suggesting silence if mechanics are being done incorrectly, or content isn't being passed though, just that people shouldn't jump on someone just because they're playing sub-par.

I'm sorry but this is an awful way to teach someone they are bad, if someone keeps getting kicked from parties then they're just going to quit, especially if no one offers any explanation and silent kicks them. It might not be your responsibility or right (why are you even saying it like that lol) but it seems cruel to let a bad player flail about instead of helping them and SE has shown that outside of Hall of the Novice and SSS, they’re not really interested in helping players learn how to play their jobs. If they choose to ignore the advice, that's a different conversation. Also, 'jumping on a sub-par player' that's a weird way to put it, the only people who do that are just as bad as the person they're lecturing and no one likes them either. Sub-par play is NOT ok unless the person is new to the game or the content itself.

How does this "justify" players being bad? It just avoids persecuting people who aren't up to whomevers standards.. and usually those standards are above and beyond "did we pass the content", which isn't necessary to play and enjoy the game.

This is simply not true, the idea that people who are trying to offer advice in this game to other players have lofty standards that go beyond what is required is false and pushing it as the truth is facetious. I have never, ever seen someone ask a bad player or a new player to perform at Extreme/Savage/Ultimate levels. Asking someone to perform a rotation, actually press their buttons and contribute to whatever piece of content they willingly signed up for is nothing more than asking for basic decency. If this person doesn't want to actually play, they should not have signed up for content, it's as simple as that.

They can initiate a votekick like everyone else can. State a reason. Or if you don't like people allowing sub-par players, leave. You don't have to be in the farm either. This isn't "never say anything about it", to clarify, just that people who constantly whine about the healer not healing or the tank not pulling big enough really need to make their own parties if it's such a big problem.

Sure, they can initiate a vote kick, but let me tell you what will happen. The PF leader will most likely take the party out of the content and remove the person pointing out an issue because they're rather protect their friends feelings than actually take the rightful criticism onboard, that or they'll just blow the PF up because people in this game cannot deal with problems being pointed out.

Also that goes both ways, those who do not do damage as healers and do not do big pulls when the party wants it, should make their own parties so as not to be detrimental to others.

And yet you live and continue to play the game. It really didn't change your life all that much to just be quiet did it? You could have left as well.

Sure, I got my farm done (no mount, very sad) but that's another bad experience for me to chalk up. It didn't really change my life, but every time something similar happens, it's just going to quietly build up in the back of my mind and eventually sour my attitude. You shouldn't so flippantly write off bad experiences, acting as if it didn't matter, because unfortunately it is a problem with this playerbase. If these bad experiences were few and far between, then sure I wouldn't really care and would just accept it as luck of the draw etc, however, we have an entire thread dedicated to the sheer ineptitude of this playerbase and it's probably the biggest thread on this board. I'm not stupid enough to expect that every single time I do content with people via DF and PF, that I'm going to get players of the same skill level with the same investment, however it shouldn't be filled with players who are half paying attention, don't know how to play their jobs, won't listen to advice and bring the party down.

To finish up and to address your final point, why should I have to leave because of a bad player? That is a fantastic way to drive away all the good players from interacting with others in the playerbase because they'll just get flamed and told "if you don't like my bad play, leave". The playerbase needs to realise it's on them to assist others to get better at the game and to remove those who do not want to from play until they wake up and understand that no one wants to play with them unless they actually try and that's really all anyone is asking for, for others to try and not just run around the arena of a boss, pressing their gcds when they feel like it and dying to mechanics and then typing in chat "haha oops xD".