Just curious. How would all you armchair PT leaders handle the situation? It seems like everyone makes the leader find the members, secure the teleport, explain the entire fight, take care of any replacements that need to happen, and get them back to their city of choice. All the effort, none of the gratitude. Only bitching and moaning because I put the needs of the other 6 people under my charge ahead of one person who was obviously not ready to do the event.
Well, yeah, as the guy who's putting the putting the party together, it is sorta your responsibility to do all that. That's why you're the party leader. It's up to you to make the call, and make the decision.

I hate making PT's in FFXIV because instead of garnering a modicum of respect for the extra work I do. All I get is flamed online because I didn't pat some noobs head while feeding him cotton candy and telling him everything is going to be alright. You can stay and cause another wipe. Waste mine and the others time and resources because you are entitled to PT's carrying you because you are new. /eye roll
Here's a tip: It isn't what you did that was douchy as how you did it. You didn't want to carry a person who was clearly new to the game. Fine, I can understand that. But you didn't have to ask him if he was drunk. You didn't have to insult him as you did time and time again in this thread. You could taught him how to use those abilities, and maybe he would have done better. Or if you didn't want to do that, you could have asked him to leave and find a replacement.

As far as being flamed online, you brought that on yourself. You come in here to complain about a new player, insult him, and then blame it on something which probably wasn't the case (powerlevelling). And then you start to insult people who disagree with you. If I didn't think you were serious, I'd say you'd be trolling.

I don't want to create a greater schism but people like yourselves would have never of made it in FFXI. I dearly wish that were the case now so I could be among those who take themselves the least bit seriously.
Please. Don't presume you know anything about me or my gaming history.