Quote Originally Posted by Nekokaori View Post
My first crush was honestly to danny phantom and i was 11 at the time and honestly i did have dreams of marrying danny at the time and having a wedding in the ghost zone with ember playing the music and stuff
Let's be real. That wasn't your first crush, that was your first husbando. Not to mention your past sounds a lot like you have a bunch of baggage to deal with but everyone has that, it's up to you to deal with how it will change your outlook. Fore example, my baggage ensures that I can't have a proper friendship due to the average person's self destructive nature. At some point you need to take a step back and look at things objectively. In this case, are you making the story better or are you just signaling to yourself at the expense of a product?