I don't think I will ever understand what OP is going through, I do think it's a significant minority and it's hard to conceive that a condition like this couldn't just be fixed by "tough it up buttercup" but it's something I know nothing about so maybe it's a real issue that people have. SE does attempt to accommodate whenever they can regardless though. I believe an option could be enabled for things like these because for most of us, we are excited to see the unexpected whether it's violent or a moment of betrayal. I don't think there are many who could understand what OP is going through so it might seem like an odd request but I think that an option that could be enabled would resolve the issue at hand.