1. Discover what you want because there's a group for every style.

Are you someone who wants to write pages upon pages of epics? Slice of life? Edgelording? You can experiment and ask for a discord link to see the wide selection of players and characters that can help you get started.

2. Don't be a jerk.

Please do not try to control someone else's character. If you want to take someone's drink, you can't just take it. You can't just harm people or do as you will.

3. Read the room.

If you join a group, when in Rome it. This is where having a group helps because when in a free for all like Balmung's Ul'dah, you have an impossibly wide variety of styles and people will match what the other person is doing to accommodate. And as it's been said before, communicate.

Ask someone what they would like, what they are comfortable with, what they don't want to get into, ect. Use your search info in all it's 60 chara. limit glory to express what you're looking for. And it would help to learn tags.

For example: 18+ D/M/ wu/ no t
This means ages 18+ only, Dark, Mature, walk ups welcome, no tells.

Don't be afraid to ask for help either or what something in their search info means.

Quote Originally Posted by Fhaerron View Post
I fixed it.
Outdated Balmung memes.