Not sure this is a mental game that too many others play with themselves, but I have heard a few others mention it. I pay WAY to much attention to it and it ruins my fun when I am not high on the list as a DPS. I am well aware that it does not a directly translate into DPS but still. People say "Just don't look at it" but that's not so easy.

Simply put I would Love the addition of a toggle for the little enmity bars/numbers in the party list. Some may like it and I can see its uses in Raiding and such, but most of the time it causes un-needed stress as well as feels like clutter in the list and would appreciate it were it to be togglable.