If anything, my mindset has changed as I have. 2020 was rough, and it made me a more patient person who is trying to be conscious of my effect on others. I am no longer grinding my teeth when the mentor with his ultimate legend title dies to the same mechanic again, again. I will ditch the group to explain mechanics to the sprout who asked what they need to do. I'll just laugh at people losing their minds in party chat, someone that would have been me a few years ago.

As an aside, why are people blaming WoW and ESO for pure healers? If your healer dps parse isn't up to snuff on either game you get culled. Been that way for years.