Actually, you seem to be the one that have selective reading comprehension, because most of the times you respond to a FFXI topic here you automatically assume they want an exact copy of it, which so far has been untrue. Most are saying "like (x) from FFXI" because it gives you the idea of what they're talking about. Pretty much every "Make it like FFXI" topic I've seen they all agree leave out what they did wrong with it, like Nyzul or Einherjar suggestions, pretty much everyone is talking about the random dungeon layout with random objectives and the boss fights on every x floors.
You're the one that assumes people are talking about the full "Time-sink" nature, when Yoshida himself wants to add 2 hour dungeons, which by the way, is longer than the majority of non-open world FFXI events as of today.