In my previous FC I told the GM he should have pulled out if he did not want a child--he was complaining about becoming a father, and was saying things like without the risk it is no fun--later that week he said that his GF had a miscarriage and I felt awful about what I said since he was apparently broken up by it. Though I have a hard time reading people I found six months later that they had the kid and it was all just a joke about the miscarriage. Embarrassing part was I was the only person in the FC that did not know catch on that they were joking. So I spent all that time walking on egg shells around people in the FC and the GM.