I did all of what you suggested. My friends didn't see me on the list anymore and I wasn't in my FC and i did check mog station and my character was completely gone. But I have her back now. They did the retrieval a few hours ago. and Now the only thing I am missing is yes my house is 100% gone which sucks so much! And would be fine except the housing retrieval guy in the housing district doesn't have all the housing items I had. D: