Prepulling mobs as healer

[SamRF]

It is not up to anyone other than the tank to decide how many mobs they want to tank. It is quite literally their role. If you do not like the pace at which the tank is moving, the only thing you should do is ask them if they please want to pull more. If they say no, do not start doing their job for them. Like others have said: If you want to act like the tank, be the tank.

Yes, all they have to do to save you is use their AoE. No, they are not obligated to do so. You pulled the mobs of your own volition, so they have the right to refuse to save you. If this tank is a complete stranger to you, you should not try to gimp their gameplay experience just because you'd like to do it a different way. If you cannot trust randoms, then get friends to run content with you. If you run it with randoms, then adhere to their wishes. End of story.

If you do not know the person, only expect the minimum out of their job. Not the maximum. At the same time, they should not go out of their way to mess you up either. Mutual respect is the basis of social interaction. Do not expect everything in return for nothing.

Like I've said, in the situations I'm talking about it literally doesn't even matter if tank takes over the mobs or I keep tanking the mobs as healer. Damage is so negligible and there's no wipe risk, besides, tank would take enmity automatically if I bring mobs to them when they are doing their aoe rotation anyway. My only complaint is the fact that they get upset in chat.

[Ammokkx]

Like I've said, in the situations I'm talking about it literally doesn't even matter if tank takes over the mobs or I keep tanking the mobs as healer. Damage is so negligible and there's no wipe risk, besides, tank would take enmity automatically if I bring mobs to them when they are doing their aoe rotation anyway. My only complaint is the fact that they get upset in chat.

No shit they get upset. Either you're doing something they didn't ask you to do, or you're doing something they asked you not to do. Both are just as shitty as one-another.

Efficiency is no excuse. Not everyone wants to be efficient. People play this game with different priorities, and if you go with randoms, you opt into having to respect those.