Quote Originally Posted by Alaeacus View Post
If I ask you to stop pulling enemies and you ignore me, I'm letting both you and the DPS who try bailing you out die. You pull it you tank it.

Sometimes I don't care and just let it happen. If you ask to pull more, I usually do. If I pull more and I can see that you CLEARLY cannot handle it, I stop over-pulling. Sometimes there are REASONS why I am not pulling what you want pulled. If you don't agree with those reasons, I really dgaf. Either deal with it or find a new tank. Penalty doesn't bother me, I WILL leave your azz.
In situation I'm talking about it wouldn't even matter if you left. Those over geared dungeons can easily be done without a tank.

Note that I'm not saying that prepulling as healer is always okay, just in given specific situation I described in OP.