Can we get choices that really matter and have a effect?

[Rannie]

not really if you were in Emets shoes you would do the exact same thing he was doing ... everyone would and well honestly if you had any of those characters experience you would do the same thing .. nothing concerning about it just the way things work

I've been reading this thread and responses so far but this one...

I lost my mother 2 years ago this Feburary 15. That's right as of me posting this its 4 days until the second anniversary of my mother's death. She was wasnt even 63 years old and died of congestive heart failure. Do I empathize with Emet on his losses? Yes I do. Would I go about destroying lives just to bring my loved ones back who have died? HELL NO! The ends do NOT justify the means in this Scenario nor did Hydaelyn kill people to split the world into the Source with 13 shards. Life is still life weither the memories are completely intact or not. It's like saying that someone who has amnesia is dead or even people suffering from an illness such as dementia or Alzheimer are no longer living.