This sounds like a community problem more than anything else.

Is the game design where you need to have the optional group setup? If so it is a game problem.

Is the game design where you don't, and having the best group setup..but players still need to have this. It is a problem with the community.


It is a endless cycle and at some point I think developers should just ignore it. They kinda already have that stance with the no parsing, and consider it harassing when you call out people for low dps.

Balance should not be done around what people are willing to invite.