Mentors...please!

[SoranRigel]

The only thing I've gotten out of this thread is that OP and their friend need to spend less time spamming with pseudo-intellectual fallacies and significantly more on self-critiquing how they approach/converse with others. When your confirmation bias reaches this level of extreme, the problem isn't with others; it's with you.

I would be very grateful if you would not resort to the victim blaming.
Because of this vicious practice, I have repeatedly found myself in a situation where my groupmates refused to kick a mentor who was rude to them. Perhaps they also thought "it's our fault".

[Thamorian]

I would be very grateful if you would not resort to the victim blaming.
Because of this vicious practice, I have repeatedly found myself in a situation where my groupmates refused to kick a mentor who was rude to them. Perhaps they also thought "it's our fault".

So you found yourself in a situation where other people in the party did not find the mentor to be a problem, only you found the mentor to be a problem? Maybe the mentor wasn't the problem then? Takes 50% to kick someone out of a party. Only 2 people needed in a party of 4, the 1 who initiated the kick and 1 other. 4 needed in a party of 8, the 1 who initiated the kick and 3 others. It's a good thing it takes more than 1 person one to kick someone.

This thread has turned into a complete joke.

[Alaeacus]

The only thing I've gotten out of this thread is that OP and their friend need to spend less time spamming with pseudo-intellectual fallacies and significantly more on self-critiquing how they approach/converse with others. When your confirmation bias reaches this level of extreme, the problem isn't with others; it's with you.

Regardless, playing a perpetual blame game doesn't accomplish anything. If you feel a mentor—or anyone for that matter—has crossed a line, then report them. All of the tools you need to solve the problem are there, and easily accessible to everyone.

I would be very grateful if you would not resort to the victim blaming.

Lmfao. Today I learned that critiquing somebody's argumentation method and conversational gaffes is "victim blaming". You are becoming a meme at this point. It must suck to have paper-thin skin.