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    In my opinion the majority of sprouts and returner are toxic. And Mentors are suffering from this.
    Funny or not ? You cant prove me wrong because i made a statement wich cant be checked. Furthermore my statement leaves yOu only the option of supporting me or supporting toxic behavior. That is very manipulative . Next is what makes your opinion true or even more important then mine or anyone elses?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Banriikku View Post
    Still going ?
    In my opinion the majority of sprouts and returner are toxic. And Mentors are suffering from this.
    Funny or not ? You cant prove me wrong because i made a statement wich cant be checked. Furthermore my statement leaves yOu only the option of supporting me or supporting toxic behavior. That is very manipulative . Next is what makes your opinion true or even more important then mine or anyone elses?
    When the community as a whole is toxic, everyone suffers. All this is very symptomatic in fact. There is no healthy equality, a lot of elitism, passive and active aggression, greed and selfishness.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RajNish View Post
    When the community as a whole is toxic, everyone suffers. All this is very symptomatic in fact. There is no healthy equality, a lot of elitism, passive and active aggression, greed and selfishness.
    Even tho I am not the most social person and usually stay for myself, I think this community in general is very polite and helpful. Most people at least try to help or guide you somewhere you might find help/information.
    And even tho I cringe a lot about NN, I guess ppl use it frequently bc they find it helpful or like the social aspect about it.

    The negative things you just mentioned are generally frowned upon by every sub-comm this game has, but you always find a few bad apples. Doesn't mean it's fair to generalize that much.
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    I don't know, man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RajNish View Post
    When the community as a whole is toxic, everyone suffers. All this is very symptomatic in fact. There is no healthy equality, a lot of elitism, passive and active aggression, greed and selfishness.
    I say your are selfish, i say you are elitist. You say this is "xxx" and must be true because "yyy" wich cant be checked. You behave as if you were the prosecutor and judge in one person. You make general statements and avoid my and others questions. Besides what you are refering to sounds more like social problem and is so generally held that you could apply this to everything in our society. So can we now talk about why you think that the majority of mentors are toxic or is this just "vent against the mentor" thread now and we just trash talk a spezific player group?

    Next is the voluntary Isolation: Every single player has his knicks and knacks and even when no one is doing something wrong we dont like each other. Also every player does things at diffrent pace, with diffrent viewpoints and so on. Thats reality. I dont play Mentor roulette or in PF Groups because i dont like some player behavior. So this makes the comm toxic ? I expect player to look guides before going in the PF and know what they are doing, i expect players to be good at their job - does this apply as default? No.Why should this be so? What makes me or you so god damn special that we can demand this ? I dont see your reasons besides " i am right and you are wrong".
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    Quote Originally Posted by Banriikku View Post
    I say your are selfish, i say you are elitist. You say this is "xxx" and must be true because "yyy" wich cant be checked. You behave as if you were the prosecutor and judge in one person. You make general statements and avoid my and others questions. Besides what you are refering to sounds more like social problem and is so generally held that you could apply this to everything in our society. So can we now talk about why you think that the majority of mentors are toxic or is this just "vent against the mentor" thread now and we just trash talk a spezific player group?

    Next is the voluntary Isolation: Every single player has his knicks and knacks and even when no one is doing something wrong we dont like each other. Also every player does things at diffrent pace, with diffrent viewpoints and so on. Thats reality. I dont play Mentor roulette or in PF Groups because i dont like some player behavior. So this makes the comm toxic ? I expect player to look guides before going in the PF and know what they are doing, i expect players to be good at their job - does this apply as default? No.Why should this be so? What makes me or you so god damn special that we can demand this ? I dont see your reasons besides " i am right and you are wrong".
    I already answered your comments when they were constructive. And honestly, I do not want to swear with you. As the Buddha said: “Take yours to yourself” and do whatever you want with it.
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