Try doing it synced with an all BLU party.

With that said, I like how hard it is. It was the first time since Titan HM that I wiped multiple times on the first run. I feel like its a story-wide skill check. Frustrating, certainly but a realistic way to prepare players for what's to come.

Otherwise if you're wanting to farm it, wait to next expac. She'll go down much easier then.