So I definitely don't have it anywhere, as I said before, I already did the item search and everything, but I was able to group with my wife's new character and both of us equipped our bracelets and completed the quest line for the ceremony. So even though the ring is missing and the NPC said the ring needs to be given to the acolyte for the annulment, if it is missing, you can just redo the quest line with your new partner by equipping the bracelets!