People want challenging end game content and

[Kokonji]

whats wrong with people doing the content with their best gear ?
if you don't have best gear like them, dont blame them on their hard earned gear, they deserve to use it

you say you take long time to learn and figure out stuff, so you'll have to expect to experience some of the wipefest, especially in the freshly released content, even on extreme mode,
or just wait until said content is farmable enough for most player (which you could probably get carried to clear without the wipefest ?)

Blind run is for those who enjoy figuring out stuffs
phase 1 prog, for real you complaint about pf who said they want to learn the first phase ?
ilv460 is for those who already prepared to enter hades ex (at least in the gear section)
day one, well, what do you expect on pf on the release day of content ?

just make your own pf if you want the same-minded people in your party

Oh man, a lot to unpack in this thread with just the first post.

So let's start with:

Current non-savage BiS iLvl is 460 (465 weapon from Hades, but I won't count that - obviously.), and parties don't have to cater specifically to you.

Make. Your. Own.

with upgrade item needed for augmented deepshadow obtainable from alliance raid coin exchange and nuts exchange, we should be able to obtain some 470 ilv gear
not to mention the new gear from nier alliance raid, which I believe its ilv 465 (we could only get one per weeks, but still, could obtain it before entering hades ex to raise some ilv)
and counting how long we could collect phantasmagoria tomestone till now, I'd say ilv should not have been the problem