I really appreciate the thoughtful response!

I'm glad I'm not alone in this! And if a fella' like you is having trouble, I'm not thrilled with my chances!

In my previous MMO experience, I've been on the "in" crowd most of the time, since I've been around for so long. Now I see people in this game who are in their own established circles, and now that I'm on the outside, I have no idea how to break in!

Hope we both find a group eventually!