Y'know, I like just being chatty in FCs but I have really bad social anxiety and I *HATE* running group stuff.

For a long time, if anyone asked about doing group stuff and got nothing but crickets, I would say something like "Aww, I'm sorry I can't help because I'm really uncomfortable with that stuff, but I'm just responding because I hate people feeling like they're being completely ignored, and I hope you find a run soon! ^_^"

Cue me being badgered/guilted for the next twenty minutes straight about being uncomfortable with running group stuff, until I either just log off to escape it, or else end up running the group thing just to make them stop, doing a horrible job (getting hit by everything because my nerves make me freeze up and kills my reaction time) and feeling like a complete useless piece of garbage afterwards.

So, I am now one of the people who accidentally "didn't see you" ask to do group stuff. Oh, I was surely AFK in the can, certainly not intentionally ignoring you because of my past experiences. Sorry about that.