Group content with FC 's

[Jimmymagic]

So I just started a new alt on Exodus and was looking for a FC. No problem got a a/tell 5minutes after initial starting quest in Limsa.

I asked the inviter about the FC, size, activity, raids etc. This person answered all my questions invites to join so I join.

First day everyone is generally friendly and offer help with anything. So I told the members I wasn't exactly new despite the sprout symbol and started this new alt

I then used story skip so I could do end game content. Most of the FC was at ShB or completed it.

We do roulettes, raids and leveling. Tbh I was surprised how friendly they were and then, a common occurrence in MMO's, Day 2 silence no one talking or saying hello or responding.

I asked many times if there was anything I could do or would like to join in roulettes or other dailies - no response - this FC had 75 active members when I joined and not one response.

So getting to my point, I understand people have friends and perhaps only feel comfortable conversing with them. So why bother increasing your FC size just to ignore someone new. If your busy and cant do anything atm just say so but no response with this ghosting stuff is huge pet peeve of mine and frankly is the opposite of what MMO are suppose to be imo.

Thoughts....or better any ideas how to improve Group content with FC's (Communication?)