I am quite aware of how complex healers were when the game first started and heck, even before Stormblood, it's why Healer wasn't my first class, too complex, particularly with stance dancing. I only chose Black Mage at first because I wanted to play Rdm, but hooboy was black mage hard to handle. I did get to Red Mage eventually but even that was too hard, I could never beat Stone Sea or Sky with that class and I'm like, ok, dps just isn't my thing;, it's not clicking, even after getting advice from lots of people when I posted a vid of my "performance." I saw whm, took a stab at it and it was so much simpler to deal with since they removed cleric stance. I could actually play a class I enjoy! And then they revamped Lilies and wow was I having fun with the class, if a little stressed because Shadowbringer dungeons are pretty difficult at endgame (and lets not talk about Titania -_-).

But yeah, maybe you are all right. I am getting too old for video games and should just stick to old people games like candy crush. I no longer have the reflexes to deal with modern games. Makes me sad because I love the story this game has and I want to see it to its eventual end but that will probably never happen. I also don't think you can compromise on healer mechanics, or how the game is designed and targeted to. Maybe the game isn't for casuals at all but more like Black Desert where you can only be truly hardcore to progress enjoy this game without falling asleep and that's too bad because I want to experience more of the story with my character. Oh well, another game I guess I have to drop then....