This is just how 14 is, and the things you don't like are the exact reasons I love it. I've played so many MMOs.. and none with the exception of this one have brought me to literal tears with the story.

I'm not going to do as others here have and berate you. This is just a friendly reminder that there is no one game that is going to please everyone. Whereas you don't want to ride a chicken and talk to people, I do. I live for the story, and that's how it's delivered here.

Just give it a little more time. I'm new, too. Just finished Heavensward. My entire Journal is FILLED with quests for dungeons and trials and raids.

Make sure you're picking up all the blue "+" quests because these open up the exciting stuff more often than not, and the further you go, the more there is to do. MSQ doesn't go on forever (though it may seem like it at times).

If it's really that big a deal for you, don't play unless you have several hours to devote to it and do something a little more gratifying. I don't say this to be rude, but here's what we have to remember: we play games for fun, and if you aren't having fun, then maybe it's time to readjust how and what you play. 14 WILL get more exciting. I promise. It's just that it's a process and one that a lot of us wouldn't trade for the world.

Psst... I loved every second of ARR. Even the pre-HW slog. Haha. Definitely not a fangirl, though. And don't let the people in the forums get to you. It's like anywhere else on the internet... it seems like people get their validation by attempting to make themselves look superior to everyone else in whatever way they can sometimes. I overlook it most of the time because despite the snark and, as you put it, "d-baggery," this community is wonderful and extraordinarily helpful.

Best of luck to you on your journey through Eorzea! <3