We can't have nice things because that mentality died a long time ago. I came from MMOs where you had to actually be nice and work together or you would get blacklisted by your entire server. This isn't a thing now. Good luck even getting 8 people to work together if you don't queue in a pre-made.

I feel what you are saying here, but the community just isn't like this anymore. You may find a few people, but the majority is.... not open to this type of self-sacrificing playstyle.