I paid for a bonding ceremony wristlet and went through the quest up until the part where you pick a date and time and complete the quest to get married. The other player I was to married, vanished from the game for two years. Showed up one day and moved to another server.

I figured as long as I had the band I could complete the quest with someone else, but I found out that this other person's name is still on my wedding band, that I paid for and didn't complete the quest with them because they vanished on me.

I am now trying to use this band that I paid for to finally complete the quest and there is no option for me to restart the quest. If I cancel it, it says it will take my band and I have to purchase a new one.

I never complete the quest and this is pretty much taking my money for goods not returned, can someone please help? Is there a way to fix this? I don't want a refund I just want to be able to use the item I paid for already without having to pay double as it wasn't my fault this other player vanished on me.