If it's been within the day it might just be standard updating delay, the forums and lodestone update at some interval I know not.. I've heard it's once a day, some said twice, a lot mention Japanese midnight, but basically if it's been quite recent then I'd not worry. If you're looking at more than a few days though then maybe something weird happened.

I know my character's gear will not always update to what I wore / was until many hours later, and sometimes it happens within a few moments of changing. Also I've read that it doesn't update while you're logged in, which I've never checked but the hilariously large amount of things that have been fixed by a "restart" ... if you want to try to fix it sooner than later then might give a log in and out a whirl if not done already. If it's based on log out then likely they wait a few moments and poll all the changes made to update the lodestone after logging out.

Personally I'd not worry and just play until you're done and then check back in the next time you're up and awake or what have you, probably fixed itself on schedule then. If not (and it's been longer than a day at least) it might be some other issue .

Nice new name btw