Tanks that want to take it slow?

[Kidria]

I recommend she use Trusts then. I even said this to a friend of mine for precisely the same reason. She was initially nervous doing huge pulls. Trusts allow you to control the pace without inconveniencing anyone else. That being said, I often suggest even newer tanks try doing a double pull. Six monsters do very little damage, and you'll often find people more willing to accommodate tanks who do this because it shows they're trying to compromise. Personally? I straight prefer wiping because the tank tried a big pull but couldn't handle it. Why? I like they're trying to push themselves. Hence why I'll always reply "Eh, no biggy."

Nothing is more irksome than getting a 71+ dungeon and the tank only wants to pull one at a time. It tells me they wanted a faster run compared to Trusts since human players will typically do far higher damage. But they still wanted to enforce their preferred pace.

A late reply but yeah, she's pretty much resigned to doing trusts once she hits 71. Right now I've been going with her as my healer and encouraging her to do bigger pulls, and she's been doing a lot better, but the usual 'oh no' anxiety kicks in when she gets too adventurous and dies or a dps tells her off. I just wish the common majority had more patience.