Real World needs/issues/problems =/= FFXIV needs/issues/problems

If you miss the que then, if I may be frank, too bad. Just reque.

Ideally take care of everything prior to the que if possible. If you're unable to then you just gotta try your luck.

Sorry pal, the Devs already have enough pressure on them from all sides about stuff more concerning than a lowly 1st world problem.