TC, it might be a bit late, but if someone told you what your DPS was and kicked you for underperforming according to his standard, you have the right to report that person.

Parsing is a grey area. Technically it is against the TOS, but SE won’t do anything against people using a parser. Unless, that is, they use that parser to discriminate against someone. Vote Kicking someone for ‘low DPS’ is just that sort of discrimination.