I’ll agree with WoW’s community being worse, even if there is toxicity in raiding here.

I stepped over to WoW for a little bit, level up a healer, and the first levelling dungeon I get into a dungeon I get yelled at by the dps for letting the tank die once. After that I started explicitly mentioning that I was new when I queued into dungeons. The next time I didn’t mention it, I got yelled at again for letting a dps die once (despite the fact that the tank had abandoned duty and we still finished the dungeon without a wipe). I hadn’t heard a single peep in party chat apart from this in any dungeon.

In ffxiv it’s more common than not to get a hello or a wave upon entering a dungeon, and a thanks upon leaving it. Little things like that make it so much more enjoyable to work with people.