Toxic Mentor Problem

[Nariel]

And if you're not in the novice network (like a lot of people; I really do not need a server-wide channel in my chat log), which doesn't help when you're in a duty, anyway, where advice is most helpful?

Just because you're under this misguided notion that people only ever want the crown for vanity (I'd argue no one does, at least not a significant amount), doesn't mean it isn't useful.

Commendations really don't matter; they're handed out on a personal, subjective basis, where as the Mentor system is based on an objective system.



Probably because we tend to either get ignored or even yelled at for offering friendly advice, and I know that at least in my case, I don't want to insult anyone by assuming they don't already know what to do. It's why communication is important; nobody can read minds.

Yeah I know how usefull it could be if it was an actual indicator of having a mentor willing to help in your party, but it isn't. And not to be rude but, thinking majority of mentor aren't just picking it for the crown is being deluded. Its how its always been, ever.

I never once been harassed for giving advice, ignored yes but never got any virulent reaction to it.