My work schedule alternates every two months between days/nights. So I look for active members at all times of the day. I don't want to be the only member on when I am staying up the night before a night shift. Outside of this, I look for helpful members and an open minded chat. No butt hurt snowflakes that take offense to anything and everything, and no off the handle every other word is an expletive. Somewhere in the middle where you can have normal conversations about every day life and joke around with others.