Though I am not a hard core player myself, even I will have to disagree.

Those who do things like DPS checks are there to get past difficult content because of the rewards they get. Lowering the DPS check would (theoretically) help more people do the content, but then level the playfield too much so there is no reall challenge for those looking for it.

Know your limitations. Either adapt or stay how you are. Don't force others.