I'm almost certain you don't want me to reply with anything except, 'yeah, you're right, this game is dreadful'.

However, on the offchance that I'm wrong, Thok AST Thok Extreme hasn't been current content for a number of years and isn't part of a roulette so your wait times will be high. No extremes are part of roulettes and neither are savage raids. If you want to do that content, I would suggest trying party finder or asking folks in your FC if they are interested. Maybe join a Discord for your data centre. Queues for current content and/or roulette content are fine.

It's also fine that you don't care for the story. A lot of people think differently, and the story in Shadowbringers has been particularly widely praised. But you are entitled to your opinion of course - and I don't think you're interested in hearing why I and many others rate the story so highly. That's not a short answer, after all, so there's little point me giving it if you're not wanting to engage with it