So I used to play WoW and while tanking was always something I wanted to try, I never did. Now that I'm giving FFXIV a shot, I decided to try out Paladin because their abilities seem cool, I really like using a sword & shield, and it gives me a chance to try tanking. I've only done the like first 3 story dungeons so my experience is honestly quite limited. The first dungeon I did had me on edge the whole time but by the third I was a bit more comfortable. Thing is that I'm worried that I'm upsetting people because I always see discussions about doing big pulls and stuff and because this was my first time tanking I was just going one pack at a time. While I'm sure that as I gain more experience as I tank, I'll be more comfortable with pulling more and more I'm just worried that I'll never go fast enough and/or be good enough. That I'll always just be wasting people's time and that they'd be better off with a different tank. That's why I find tanking scary.