What's your feeling on the following:
I tried telling the tank to pull less in a somewhat cheeky way.
I said: If you keep pulling like that, I will have to spend the entire time spamming heals and have no room for DPS.
Tank said: Keep spamming heals, we already have two DPS.
So, I did, but then he needed as much healing during the boss fights as during the large pulls, so it was a wipe fest till a DPS left.
I keep looking back on it thinking I should have said something like 'That's not really how pulls are supposed to go' or 'do something more than just grit!'