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    This is ofcourse not looking at the actual problem... NOONE TALKS HERE!!!?!! I just did a dungeon with a shitty healer when addressed said jack crap. We get people on our friend's list who never contact you but once. Honestly.
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    Krotoan's Avatar
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    Krotoan Argaviel
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    Sargatanas
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    Reaper Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Insertcoins View Post
    This is ofcourse not looking at the actual problem... NOONE TALKS HERE!!!?!! I just did a dungeon with a shitty healer when addressed said jack crap. We get people on our friend's list who never contact you but once. Honestly.
    Look, some of us build groups of friends online. We also join FC's because we like to play with people. Sometimes though we would rather just bury our heads in the game without people bugging us to come join them or even just /tell-ing us stuff. This isn't to avoid random tells and messages, it's to disconnect from even established friends. We don't HATE them, but introversion is a thing, even online.
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    WHERE IS THIS KETTLE EVERYONE KEEPS INTRODUCING ME TO?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Krotoan View Post
    Look, some of us build groups of friends online. We also join FC's because we like to play with people. Sometimes though we would rather just bury our heads in the game without people bugging us to come join them or even just /tell-ing us stuff. This isn't to avoid random tells and messages, it's to disconnect from even established friends. We don't HATE them, but introversion is a thing, even online.
    Hey I know. I'm interovet myself, but that's how do I put this. Pointless? The busy icon works as intented, slap it on and no tells. I mean if people want to get ahold of you NOTHING is goign to stop them from sending you mail when tells don't work or whatever. If it's THAT bad either remove them/ log off/ or just tell them. " I'm not feeling well atm. I'll hit you back." Most people online understand HELL most people in this game back off from a simple " I'm good". I have to say this again.. PEOPLE DON'T TALK IN THIS GAME!!! LEtting the joke aside... I don't see the big deal with not using the busy icon.. it literally is the answer to your problems.
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    Last edited by Insertcoins; 07-13-2019 at 03:53 AM.

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    Skivvy's Avatar
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    Boo Box
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    Rafflesia
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    Sage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Insertcoins View Post
    Hey I know. I'm interovet myself, but that's how do I put this. Pointless? The busy icon works as intented, slap it on and no tells. I mean if people want to get ahold of you NOTHING is goign to stop them from sending you mail when tells don't work or whatever. If it's THAT bad either remove them/ log off/ or just tell them. " I'm not feeling well atm. I'll hit you back." Most people online understand HELL most people in this game back off from a simple " I'm good". I have to say this again.. PEOPLE DON'T TALK IN THIS GAME!!! LEtting the joke aside... I don't see the big deal with not using the busy icon.. it literally is the answer to your problems.
    For me personally, if I see that one of my friends has the /busy signal on, I do wonder what's up, and my natural reaction would be to ask if everything is OK once I could reach them (either in Discord or once the /busy is dropped). I've had friends react the same when I have my busy tag on. Having the option to simply go invisible would alleviate the additional conversations that come from this.

    As others have mentioned already, sometimes you just want to have a moment of quiet to yourself for whatever reason without having to field any conversation. QoL updates a thing. Generally they're nothing major, just simple tweaks that make the overall gaming experience better in minor ways. This would fit into that category just fine.
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    NefarioCall's Avatar
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    Nefario Call
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    Cactuar
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    Alchemist Lv 80
    FFXI is great (Period).
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    http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/threads/145190-Dungeons-Opening-Up-To-Explore
    Make it happen.

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    Draelon Eldad
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    Thaumaturge Lv 91
    This is a feature I have been wanting for years. We should have an option to hide ourselves.
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    Nora Origo
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    Dragoon Lv 80
    Quote Originally Posted by KokonoeAiyoko View Post
    In FFXI there was a function called "Invisible" which hid you from your friends list. I'd like to see this return in some form perhaps enhanced to work with linkshells and FC.

    Sometimes I don't feel like talking to anyone or even saying I'm busy. This is good for those moments. Busy status isn't enough.
    have you tried logging off? people have a hard time messaging me that way. /s

    I just dont reply to people if i dont feel like talking. they get the hint pretty quickly.
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    Jojo Leah
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    Louisoix
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    Dancer Lv 74
    I'm a very introverted person and admittedly I do not have many friends in my friends list so I'm not inundated with messages and whatnot. However, I think having an invisible (or appear offline) option would be a good idea for those that just want to go about and do their own thing without having to interact with other people. If I ever feel like not talking and just wanna play MSQ or just do some side quests quietly, and I get a message from someone in my friends list, I tend to say that I'm logging off because I don't want to offend them by saying I don't want to talk to anyone. Not everyone understands the need to be alone when you have a social disorder and I have in the past offended people because of it. I guess it's one of the reasons why I find it difficult to make friends. I love playing FFXIV but I don't always want to socialise with others.
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    Good QoL feature.
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