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  1. #191
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    Zeon Darksol
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    Quote Originally Posted by NessaWyvern View Post
    You want to shelter a kid even at age 16? I don't think that's particularly healthy, if you shelter a kid for too long, they might not be able to deal with situations as an adult.

    considering the legal age of consent is 16 where I live, they really need to know everything about the topic before then.
    No but teaching them the right way instead of the wrong way and to set a example for others when they hit 18 and can do for themselves.

    You call it not healthy? First off you have a world that is filled to the brim with hyper sensitive people on social media, people making video's on cops to exercise their rights just to make money off the video also to disrupt whatever the law is doing to prove a point that they are being harassed by the law.

    kids eating soap pods, doing stuff from youtube, stuff on snapchat they probably dont want you knowing things you are in the dark about you might say it wont happen to me but trust me it does think when you were a kid you did stuff you werent supposed to do and be like meh maybe it won't be so bad I say we were lucky and today is different than it was back then.

    people who bury their faces in cell phones who don't pay attention to whats going on who either fall into traffic or crash, kids recording fights even adults instead of getting involved and stopping it.

    Let me guess if you had a kid you'd buy them a cell phone, you'd allow them to go online you'd go watch tv while they secretly go on snapchat or sites they shouldn't be going on as they are being raised online they don't learn proper whats right from wrong, they get bullied in school they don't tell you because you don't insert yourself early on and have normal talks with them instead because you didn't take the time to get involved they've sheltered themselves away from you and keep to themselves now that isn't healthy.

    nobody says I leave them in the dark also that would be more you than me, I keep track I tell them and talk to them normally not hey here's a cell phone run along I trust you not to do what I wouldn't do.

    and they'll do it trust me.

    Cause id bet you anything if you ask them to see their phone or whatever emails they have they'd tell you straight no to your face and guess what no matter how mad you get this is on you can't blame them cause you allowed it.

    there is a time to be nice and then a time when you know its enough especially if you know its wrong you have a obligation as a parent to step in and fix it, if a kid breaks a window out of a car its the parents duty to pay for it, I am going to be the parent that prevents my kid from doing that this way nobody pays anything, not be like don't let me catch you doing that again now go play on your phone while I make dinner NO sorry.

    this is getting off track any how good luck also thanks for the pep talk.

    I know i'll get a few nay's here and there but its fine you are entitled to your opinions.

    now enough about me, continue with OP topic.
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    Last edited by Zeonx; 07-23-2019 at 02:04 PM.

  2. #192
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    Ni'yo Kjaresh
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zeonx View Post
    No but teaching them the right way instead of the wrong way and to set a example for others when they hit 18 and can do for themselves.
    So flirting with a male character if you maybe are male too is "the wrong way"? Cause that's the topic here, nothing else.
    You are far too serious to all of this. Yes, it is right to guide and safe your children. Don't disagree with you there, I have a kid myself.
    But all we're talking here about is a simple, harmless flirt, nothing else. Something a 16-year-old should handle without problem. Even if it's between two male characters.
    The problem with what you're telling us is that you say you have no problem with same sex in video games, but you act very different. All you say sounds a lot homophobic to me (and I'm not the only one, I'm sure). I think that's the real problem here.

    Nobody is talking about sex scenes or even a detailed kissing scene. Just about flirting.
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  3. #193
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    Keiji Zaika
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    While we are at it, I want to date with Alphinaud while him cheating on his husbando Estinien. Also I want to marry Graha Tia, not eternal bond - that's not fair. Oh and let's also not forget, since this game turns into more TheSims and actually better than the original game ever was, let me adopt Khloe already.
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  4. #194
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    Regana Redwyne
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    To be fair, I’m not talking about “man and man” flirting here. My WoL is female. :P I just recognize that G’raha acts the way he does regardless of player character, so the option should be available, regardless of player character.

    Besides, if the flirt option is there, but your male character doesn’t take it, then clearly they are not into G’raha. You are not being forced to think of your character as gay b/c by choosing not to flirt you have decided your character is not gay (at least not for G’raha). And isn't that what you thought beforehand about your character anyway? Literally nothing would change. Chill man.
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    Last edited by Alleluia; 07-24-2019 at 05:56 AM.

  5. #195
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    Quote Originally Posted by Haruane View Post
    So flirting with a male character if you maybe are male too is "the wrong way"? Cause that's the topic here, nothing else.
    Since when was that the topic? For 19 pages the topic has been primarily about being able to have options to flirt with specific NPCs. And why are you trying to twist what he said?
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  6. #196
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    Quote Originally Posted by CazzT View Post
    Since when was that the topic? For 19 pages the topic has been primarily about being able to have options to flirt with specific NPCs. And why are you trying to twist what he said?
    That's what I said. That the topic is about flirting.
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  7. #197
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    Regana Redwyne
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    Quote Originally Posted by Haruane View Post
    That's what I said. That the topic is about flirting.
    It did sound like you were saying homosexuality, and acceptance of homosexuality, was the topic to me. Could use an edit for clarity if that's not what you meant.



    I just want the option to flirt with the Exarch. I think it could add a nice aspect to my WoL's story. I don't care who else gets it, too, or who else chooses not to use it. Pretty sure most people asking for this flirt option feel the same?
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  8. #198
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    Did we get bored of playing the game this fast?
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  9. #199
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    How did this turn into a debate on morality and parenting lmao

    I just wanna give the cat man a hug

    He deserves one
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    "Run when you have to, fight when you must, rest when you can." - Elyas Machera, The Wheel of Time

  10. #200
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    Quote Originally Posted by Avidria View Post
    How did this turn into a debate on morality and parenting lmao

    I just wanna give the cat man a hug

    He deserves one
    Coz there was a dude that wanted to protect 16 year old kids from homosexual flirting for some reason.
    When really, at age 16 (or any age really) they shouldn't be sheltered from flirting or homosexual relationships, because both of those things aren't even damaging in any way.
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