The DPS is not the Healer

[Chalbee]

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You misunderstand. I don't disagree with your underlying premise; I prefer the tanks to pull big because it's also a more efficient use of my cards. However, I highly disagree with your approach, and prefer that the tank is kind or at the very least polite about it. Common courtesy and all that. If a tank begins the dungeon by dictating to me or the DPS how the dungeon is going to go (e.g. "I don't pull small, you will adapt to me") I am highly disinclined to cooperate with them, and will probably initiate a vote kick at the earliest opportunity.

[SturmChurro]

You misunderstand. I don't disagree with your underlying premise; I prefer the tanks to pull big because it's also a more efficient use of my cards. However, I highly disagree with your approach, and prefer that the tank is kind or at the very least polite about it. Common courtesy and all that. If a tank begins the dungeon by dictating to me or the DPS how the dungeon is going to go (e.g. "I don't pull small, you will adapt to me") I am highly disinclined to cooperate with them, and will probably initiate a vote kick at the earliest opportunity.

If I am tanking I shouldn't have to ask the DPS to use their aoe combos. That's the thing. They should just use them. That is the purpose behind the skill combos. If they aren't using them they are at fault for potential wipes.

To be fair it depends on my mood if I will actually be rude, it usually starts when they ask me to pull smaller or start blaming me on the wipes.