Bahahahahahah that song is awesome

I don't do Savage here but when I raided in the past in other games we just picked it up and tried again. Yeah we had some hairy situations and sometimes heated words were said, but apologies were made after and we were good again. The blame game doesn't help anyone, but proper root cause analysis does require that the progression of events be investigated. And sometimes that might meant that X person just screwed up. So long as everyone understands they're not playing with robots, it doesn't have to get nasty.