Ahoy mateys!
To start with, this thread isnt about disagreeing to something, its the point about how to disagree.

So there is a huge communication going on in the XIV forums...which is...pretty great!
But nowadays many threads seem to get hated all the way.
I love reading the forums seeing what XIV-comrades have to say and what the devs have in store.
Its ok to joke around and posting harmless nonsense-posts,
but just today I've read over 3-4 threads where people tried to discuss an issue and tried to give a statement, but get punished by receiving posts where they nearly laugh at them or even worse using personal attacks.
"Oh my, its THAT thread again"
"Of course INSERT NAME has to argue with it, he always...."

Seeing flaming on certain threads, I feel uncomfortable to contribute something to these threads.
And what surprises me the most: these offensive posts get more "like"s than the ones that help the discussion.

I know for sure that there will be always offensive people in any forum, game, burger drive-through
but if this thread will reach one or two people like "yeah, I really should shift down just one gear" I'd feel glad for sounding like a cry-baby.
And well...thats...it...